The plaintiff has built a life with her husband based on love, respect, and mutual satisfaction. The husband's past feelings are irrelevant if he consistently demonstrates love and commitment. It's unfair to destroy a good marriage based on an old, possibly overstated, confession. The plaintiff deserves happiness and should not let this revelation undermine her self-worth.
The plaintiff's husband deceived her from the start, building their relationship on a foundation of dishonesty. The revelation of his lack of attraction is not just a minor detail, but a fundamental betrayal. She is settling for a relationship where she feels inadequate and undesirable. Continuing this charade is a disservice to her own happiness and potential for a truly fulfilling relationship.
While the husband's initial lack of attraction is concerning, his actions throughout the marriage speak volumes. He has been respectful, loving, and committed, meeting her sexual needs and expressing satisfaction with their relationship. The wife's self-esteem issues, while valid, should be addressed through therapy rather than dismantling a stable and loving marriage. She should consider if this is really about his attraction, or her own insecurities.