The plaintiff is heavily pregnant and under a lot of stress already, without her own mother creating chaos in her home. The mother's actions were not only disrespectful but also dangerous, leaving furniture unmounted in a toddler's room. The emotional distress caused by her mother's manipulative behavior is unacceptable. The mother should learn to respect her daughter's decisions and boundaries.
The plaintiff seems overly sensitive and controlling. While the mother's actions were misguided, they hardly warrant this level of outrage. It sounds like the plaintiff needs to establish clearer boundaries with her mother and husband, rather than making a federal case out of a simple room rearrangement. The mother-in-law might have thought she was helping, and the plaintiff's reaction seems disproportionate.
While the plaintiff may be overreacting slightly, the mother's behavior is undeniably intrusive and disrespectful. Sneaking around to manipulate the husband and disregarding the daughter's explicit wishes regarding her own child's room is unacceptable. The safety issue with the unmounted furniture is also a serious concern. Clear communication and respect for boundaries are essential, and the mother has clearly violated these principles.