The client suffered immense emotional distress due to his mother's unfounded accusations and subsequent neglect. For months, he was tormented by the thought that his own mother believed him to be a thief. Now that she's conveniently diagnosed with delusions, she expects everything to return to normal? The audacity! He is protecting his mental well-being and his family from further emotional harm. He is not obligated to forgive someone who caused him so much pain, regardless of her current mental state.
While the mother's actions were undoubtedly hurtful, the client is being excessively rigid and unforgiving. Mental illness is a valid explanation for her behavior, and she's actively seeking reconciliation. Holding onto a grudge and refusing to even consider her apologies is vindictive and ultimately harmful to the entire family. The client's inflexibility is causing unnecessary pain and preventing potential healing. He needs to grow up and forgive his mother.
The core issue revolves around the mother's mental state and the son's reaction to her past accusations. While her delusions explain her behavior, the son's emotional distress is understandable. However, complete dismissal of her attempts at reconciliation, especially considering her mental health struggles, is excessively harsh. He also has a right to protect himself.